What do you do in your free time? Simple and effective.
The best question I’ve found for finding out someone’s hobbies is: Hobbies are things people do without being paid to, just because they enjoy them. Some examples are: yoga, photography, working out, meditation, shopping, etc. If you find out what a person’s hobbies are, you instantly know a lot more about them. I’ve also put them into groups to make it easier for you: Hobbies (Unless you want to!) Often simple and obvious topics are enough to kick-start your brain again. You’ll notice most of them are fairly straightforward and “ordinary.” That’s because you don’t need to be talking about aliens and obscure philosophy in most conversations.
So without further introduction, here is the list of topics that you can refer back to anytime.
#AWKWARD CONVERSATIONS WITH A BLACK MAN BOOK TV#
They often give you silly suggestions like: “If you made a TV show about your life, what would you name it?” Who really says something like that? I know I wouldn’t. Well, good news! I’ve put together this cheat sheet of 50 interesting conversation topics you can use at any time to rekindle the conversation, even if you feel it start to go downhill. You can go over this list before a first date or a party, whenever you need to have a few good things to talk about in mind (just in case).Īnd don’t worry, almost all of the topics I suggest are “normal.” This means you won’t hear me tell you to say lines which a normal person would never talk about in real life.įor example, many of the “conversation tips” articles you’ll find on the internet are embarrassingly cringe-worthy. And I can understand that you want to prevent this from happening to you again, especially if you’re talking to a person who you like. You’re not alone if you’ve been in this situation before. You can barely even remember your own name at this point, let alone an appropriate thing to talk about. It’s like you’ve lost your whole personality. You feel like you’ve become a total idiot because your mind has become totally blank. You feel an awkward silence slowly descending like a dark cloud, and you start to panic inside. There is a sudden pause in the conversation, and you know that you should say something now, but your brain seems to have stopped working. All you can think of is some boring question or stupid comment, but nothing interesting or good enough to actually say out loud. Imagine both of you sitting near each other. That would be embarrassingly awkward, wouldn’t it? But you just want to make sure you don’t run out of good things to talk about. Maybe right now you’re thinking of speaking to someone you’re attracted to. Do you want to talk to a girl or guy, but you’re afraid of the conversation drying up?
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